Vibrators Users Guide

Choose your first vibrator and make sure you also buy a good water based sex lubricant. Choose a location which is comfortable and you are not going to be disturbed. Its always good to get yourself in the mood before using your sex toy, it will heighten your sensitivity and induce natural lubrication which will make penetration more pleasurable. Turn on your vibrator and glide the toy over your thighs, around your nipples and over your vulva in a light caress. The anticipation of the vibrators performance will begin to turn you on and stimulating other erogenous zones and sensitive areas will contribute to your arousal level. Experiment with the vibrators speed and functions whilst stroking your sensitive zones so that when the times comes to work towards orgasm you won't be fumbling through the controls. Begin by placing the tip of your vibrator over the vulva, using the outer lips to work the vibrations over your clitoris. Use circular or 'side to side' motions over the clitoral bud from outside in. If you find your clitoral vibrator is too intense wear panties and use the material as a buffer, it won't effect your enjoyment but will act to de-sensitise your clitoris. Focus on the buzzing sensation and how it brings waves of pleasure, if you have never used a vibrator before try and fight any ticklish sensation as the deeper pleasurable experience will follow. As a vibrator beginner give yourself time, be patient and practice.

Explore the new sensations you are feeling, alternating the speed and function and changing pressure. If you feel orgasm approaching do not give in to the process but stop and tease yourself a little. Halting climax can lead to a bigger, better orgasm when it arrives. Blend together vaginal and clitoral stimulation, choosing either a multifunctional vibrator or a clitoral vibrator with penetrative vibrators for a sheet clenching orgasm. Try and control your experience and during masturbation build up levels of sexual tension before allowing it to spill over into a fantastic climax.

When you have enjoyed building up your sexual tension and need to let go with climax choose from a number of erotic methods. Keep direct vibrator contact with your clitoris throughout build up to and orgasm itself, feeling the full force of the vibrator with each muscle contraction. If the vibration becomes uncomfortable as orgasm approaches or your clitoris becomes too sensitive use three fingers over your clitoral area with the vibrator on top, the vibration lessens but stimulation is maintained. Another masturbation method is to take yourself to the point of climax and switch to a manual method for the actual orgasm. Ride the waves of pleasure from your manual stimulation and experience the change in sensation from the vibrator to your fingers. A different technique is to just hold the vibrator on your clitoris and don't attempt to squeeze your pelvis or breathe in time with your masturbation technique. Eventually climax will come and wash over you without any effort and the feeling of pleasure will be euphoric.   

Anal Sex Toy Guide

Lots of women use anal sex toys and anal stimulation during masturbation to enhance self pleasure and orgasm. Some women enjoy the sensual rub of a thumb or finger, whilst others prefer gentle penetration with dildos or a butt plug. Anal sex and stimulation is no longer a taboo subject and many women and couples enjoy the benefit from stimulating this sensitive erogenous zone. Bear in mind that anal penetration or massage will not necessarily lead to orgasm alone but will enhance your arousal and compliment your climax with its unique sensation. As with g spot stimulation anal sex toys can contribute to a stronger, more exhilarating orgasm.

You must adopt good hygiene and etiquette when using anal sex toys. Do not insert a sex toy into your anus and then penetrate your vagina as it can transmit bacteria, either use a sex toy cover on your toy or wash it with anti bacterial soap or sex toy cleaner. Remember that lubrication is essential when using anal sex toys as the anus does not produce a natural lubricant of its own, be generous with a sex lubricant and using one specifically for anal sex will last longer and be thicker tan a standard water based lube.

Butt Plugs are ideal sex toys for use during masturbation and sex. They are usually made from silicone, latex or plastic and are static toys in that once inserted you can continue with your usual clitoral stimulation or penetrative sex and enjoy the full feeling they provide without manual intervention. Simply lubricate your butt plug and insert slowly. The best way to train your muscles to relax is to insert a little way and relax 'around' the plug, waiting until you push a little further. Once in place the plug will tighten the vaginal passage and make penetrative sex more enjoyable for you both. Imagine that the butt plug and your man's penis or a dildo will all be competing for limited space, making the passages feel smaller and tighter. A mind blowing orgasm can be had by inserting your butt plug, adopting a position on all fours allowing your partner to penetrate vaginally and then finishing with your clitoral vibrator for a three way sexual stimulus to provide a deep and powerful climax.