Welcome to beginners sex toys a site dedicated to those wishing to expand their sexual horizons; pleasure seekers perplexed by the sex toy choices available in todays huge adult consumer market.
There are so many different choices pertaining to erotic goods nowadays & the beginner can be overwhelmed with toy application, material, power & suitability. Here at beginners sex toys we introduce sex toys, explain the choices & suggest suitable sex toys to begin your amazing journey of self pleasure or partner pleasing in the boudoir.
My first experience as a sex toy buyer involved a very dark seedy sex shop, six attempts to enter without being spotted by passers by and an eventual novice purchase of a plain white plastic vibrator set. I arrived home triumphant, the proud owner of my first sex toy; a vibrator to begin my now growing collection of sex toys.
The good news is that nowadays the sale of vibrators and dildos online allow you to peruse sex toy choices in the comfort of your own home & the plastic vibrator of 15 years ago has paved the way for many incarnations of adult good from designer sex toys to innovative devices for women & amazing technology soley designed for your pleasure.
Think about the following few questions to begin with as they will help to point you in the right direction when it comes to a beginners choice of sex toy.
What do you want to use your toy for?
Do you want to use your sex toy on the clitoris or in the vagina or even anus? Every vibrating toy choice will feel fabulous around your erogenous zones but choosing a phallic toy is best for the vagina whilst a plug shaped toy is better for the anus and a small, contoured vibe is better when beginning with clitoral massage. This doesn't mean to say that a phallic shaped vibrator isn't good as a clitoral stimulator especially if it is small and powerful at the tip. A rabbit vibrator is a popular choice for dual stimulation but it isn't the best choice as a couples sex toy when embarking on a joint sexual adventure and experimenting with sex play.
How strong a vibrator do I want?
When beginning with sex toys its often difficult to know what level of vibration suits you. Without the experience of varying types of toy the choice is somewhat guess work! A good choice would be to opt for a multispeed sex toy. The multispeed toy allows you to adjust the vibration level, therefore allowing for your personal preference and even differing times of sensitvity inside the month. If the sex toy you are looking at is a basic toy using only one AA battery chances are that the vibrations will be less intense whereas some of the small bullet vibrators have one very powerful setting that may blow your socks off!
How much do you want to spend on your sex toy?
Cost range is massive in todays adult market place. Toys begin at the cheaper disposable and entry level vibes where you can choose a few and experiment with the sensations they provide. Intermediate toys offer expanded functions and cost £30 plus whilst designer sex toys can be in excess of £70 with an emphasis on toy material and build quality. Although it may be sensible to spend less in the first instance if you know exactly what you are looking for choosing a sex toy like the Lelo Nea which provides good but simple clitoral stimulation wouldn't be a mistake.
How big do you want your toy to be?
There are many discreet vibrators on the market which could be slipped into your purse on the go or in your overnight bag for travel. If your toy isn't going to leave your bedside drawer then size or transportability are not your concern. If you want your toy for penetration the girth of your dildo will be important. It is often best to start with a smaller dildo that you know will fit and work your way up the scale depending on your preference.
Think through these questions and consider the practical side of your new sex toy use. If you need to keep the noise down opt for a quiet vibrator or if you are looking for partner pleasers go to the couples sex toy section and begin your quest with range of toys to please him and her.
Whether you are looking for a sex toy to aid masturbation, an erotic accessory to spice up your sex life or have no idea about where to start we will guide you through the sex aids available & suggest suitable uses for each genre of toy.
Which type of sex toy should I begin with?
When beggining a journey of sexual discover either alone or with your partner perusing the amazing display in an online sex shop or high street store can be mind boggling. A store like Ann Summers sells its rampant rabbits but also stocks various vibrators for women and couples which don't look like the usual torpedo style vibrator you may have seen before. Asking for help over the counter can be scary and clicking the huge selection of adult ware in a company like Lovehoney or Sextoys can leave a novice in complete confusion. Vibrators, dildos, anal toys, prostate massagers, wands, plugs, massagers and enhancers whats a girl to choose?
Our Beginners Toy Guide takes you through each generic adult toy category explaining what the pleasure object actually is and what it does.
Our Sex Toy Buyers Guide gives you hints, tips and things to look out for when purchasing your first sex toys
Our Sex Toy Users Guide gives ideas on how to use your new vibrator and how to incorporate it into your sex life
Our guide to Sex Toy Material explains the differing products used for manufacture and benefits and disadvantages to each
Relax & enjoy your experience
Sex toys are fun & an expression of your sexual desire. Enjoy the journey of sexual discovery & don't be afraid to ask us a question at beginners sex toys we are here to help!
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It may be useful to identify what type of adult store suits your needs best. Do you prefer to touch the product and speak to somebody before you buy? A private shop is not the dark and seedy establishment it used to be and stores such as Nice N Naughty cater for couples in a modern up to date setting. Ann Summers is the only high street choice and if you battle beyond the cheap lingerie have a selection of vibrators (watch the prices they can be silly!) Online stores are a good option with cheaper prices and good guarantees. Boudoir Sex Toys is an erotic emporium for women where lots of advice and brilloant topics help with your choices and delivery is free with most of the main sex shops nowadays.
Blogs and review sites are a brilliant source of information if you find the right ones. Lots of bloggers make money from reviewing product and this colours there perspective but you can usually tell if a site is waxing lyrical in the interest of profit or actually relaying their direct experience of the product in question. Epiphora has a great blog with 'real' sex toy reviews and Akiko has sex toy reviews on her site which has no affiliation with a toy company but experiences adult goods through her work as a sexual psychologist. Couples Sex Toys is a great site for explaining the world of partner play and couples bedroom treats and good old Cosmopolitan online has a sex and love section for some good tips.
